October 1, 2007

• A Good Wo/Man vs. A Wo/Man Good for You

  Someone who is 'good' doesn't mean they are good for you.  I think we hold on to the belief that we have to keep a tight hold on a good wo/man because there aren't that many of them in the world.  In doing so, I think we lose who we are because we feel we have to work hard to keep this good wo/man, not fully realizing that this good wo/man may not be good for us. 

  This thought process is parallel to the belief "I am not complete because I am alone."  Does one have to be in a relationship to feel whole?  Shouldn't one feel that they are a complete person in and out of a relationship?  If one feels whole without being in a relationship, does it mean they don't 'need' a relationship?  Is this the chicken coming before the egg or the double-edged sword?

  I feel that those who seek a relationship for the relationship are missing out on the big, beautiful picture of life.  When you are happiest with being yourself and being who you are, you are HAPPY regardless of your situation.  True happiness comes from within.  You shouldn't need or depend on someone else to make you happy;  the BEST wo/man in the world can't make an unhappy person happy. 

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  I ask for clarity in my thoughts, pureness in my actions, love in my energy, and a positive outlook. 

  I ask that the negative be replaced with positive, my energy be productive, and my heart be welcoming.

  This is taking too much energy out of me. 

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